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Marcie finally felt plugged into her biological family after years of divisive behavior from her adopted mother. Her mother never nurtured a bond between Marcie and her adopted siblings and had a hard time overcoming some of her own childhood issues. In reunion, Marcie connected with her biological father who amazingly helped solidify a deeper connection to Marcie’s aunt, his sister. Marcie and her aunt both share an innate connection to their own spirituality. Even though her biological mother was not in a place to be part of Marcie’s reunion with her father, she was able to make a really good connection with another aunt on her maternal side of the family. In hindsight Marcie wishes she had been true to herself throughout her journey, reaching out sooner and making sure to meet her relatives when the opportunities presented themselves. She admits that sometimes it’s okay for each us to be selfish along our journey as long as it is done with kindness and compassion for others. The post http://www.whoamireallypodcast.com/021-every-heart-break-heart-gets-bigger/ (021- With Every Heart Break, My Heart Gets Bigger) appeared first on http://www.whoamireallypodcast.com (Who Am I...Really? Podcast). Marcy (https://www.temi.com/editor/t/_Y-3uiD5P1qGNQpZf3xEMJ9MtOaIn9lBiBPj3lP4rK625MONitkfqYhBnZmLjnr_uVjijMAeQQQEWHgBCpKVshVjs1o?loadFrom=DocumentDeeplinkats=6.78 (00:06)): I think it was painful as a woman, having a child, knowing that somewhere my biological mother went through a pregnancy with me and pushed life out of her, into me and then had to leave me. And the whole experience is esteem now of what my body went through for those nine months and the trauma that your body goes through in order to create the healthy beautiful environment for this beautiful thing, growing inside of you. I had real mixed emotions about it. Voices (https://www.temi.com/editor/t/_Y-3uiD5P1qGNQpZf3xEMJ9MtOaIn9lBiBPj3lP4rK625MONitkfqYhBnZmLjnr_uVjijMAeQQQEWHgBCpKVshVjs1o?loadFrom=DocumentDeeplinkats=50.56 (00:50)): Who am I? Who am I? Who am I? Who am I? Who am I? Who am I? Who am I? Damon (https://www.temi.com/editor/t/_Y-3uiD5P1qGNQpZf3xEMJ9MtOaIn9lBiBPj3lP4rK625MONitkfqYhBnZmLjnr_uVjijMAeQQQEWHgBCpKVshVjs1o?loadFrom=DocumentDeeplinkats=57.7 (00:57)): This is Who Am I Really? A podcast about adoptees that have located and connected with their biological family members. I'm Damon Davis. And on the show today, you're going to hear from Marcy. Marcy grew up with two older adopted brothers in a home she says, was filled with parental narcissism. That environment made her struggles with her own identity, even worse as a teenager, her upbringing exacerbated deep unrest within her. In reunion, she found her father who laid a path for Marcy to find a kindred spirit in his family. Her story begins in Michigan when she was a child. Damon (https://www.temi.com/editor/t/_Y-3uiD5P1qGNQpZf3xEMJ9MtOaIn9lBiBPj3lP4rK625MONitkfqYhBnZmLjnr_uVjijMAeQQQEWHgBCpKVshVjs1o?loadFrom=DocumentDeeplinkats=112.06 (01:52)): Marcy has always known she was adopted, but she doesn't really remember actually talking about adoption. Marcy says she had a little trouble navigating her mother's emotions and she couldn't really figure out if things would've been different if Marcy had been her biological daughter. Marcy (https://www.temi.com/editor/t/_Y-3uiD5P1qGNQpZf3xEMJ9MtOaIn9lBiBPj3lP4rK625MONitkfqYhBnZmLjnr_uVjijMAeQQQEWHgBCpKVshVjs1o?loadFrom=DocumentDeeplinkats=126.65 (02:06)): I really know if we did talk about it. I don't really remember. I know, you know, I grew up in a home where my mother, for whatever reason, couldn't have children. Um, and we constantly heard about all her failed pregnancies and her female problems. And, um, you know, I think sometimes those are really big shoes for someone like me to fill. You know, I think that she, as much as she enjoyed having children, I don't know really how much she enjoyed having children.... Support this podcast