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Allah is more merciful to His slave than a mother is to her child! Always remember this. Do not fall into despair, especially regarding marriage. We shouldn’t feel despair – we base our idea of marriage on what we see in front of us, most often a bad case of marriage. And the halaal route to marriage is not effective. Exploring illicit relationships is a must for happiness. Employ common sense and look to the truth. Reconstruct the idea of marriage in your head. The first love of Rasul (saw) was Khadija (ra). Married for 25 years, mother of his children. Great love story! When Khadija (ra) died Rasul (saw) felt extreme pain and Allah blessed him with Isra wal Miraaj. This is what defines love. Not hopeless compromise. Love and marriage doesn’t ask you to live a life that is displeasing to Allah. Allah will not leave you hanging. Allah will grant you an amazing partner! Allah loves you more than your mother. Allah created a spouse for you!! And will continue to take care of you. Remove the guilt of feeling attracted to the opposite gender, this is natural! What’s important is how one fulfills those desires. Allah puts love in our hearts, so to maintain love and barakah in your relationship you must maintain your relationship with Allah! This love must be sound. 2: 238 “Watch over the prayers” – in the middle of a discourse on divorce and marriage. WHY!!! Mufassiroon say: Allah reminds us about prayers because if a couple is in a rough patch they should turn to Prayer because perhaps their relationship with Allah is lacking! “May Allah have mercy upon a husband/wife who when he wakes up for fajr finds his wife/husband asleep and him/her wakes up to pray with him…”