Episode 19: Fetish Play Vs. F*cking
An interview with “Blue Topaz,” or “Blue” about fetish play versus sex
Show notes:
Blue is engaged and sexually monogamous with fiance, who is also in kink scene
Some history of Blue’s involvement with kink and vanilla relationships / The boundaries and agreements about kink vs. sex with fiance and other people
Needle play is something Blue does with other people
Rope play is something fiance does with other people
Fire play is something they do together with other people
More about fire play
Subspace described
How and when she subs or doms
What kink is really about and how she got involved in the scene
About munches
Safety and consent among kink / swingers
Where the play happens
About her bisexuality and how it works within her relationship with her fiance and kink play
More about her vanilla relationship past
Public openness about involvement in the kink scene
More about needle play
Even more details about fire play
The luck of finding her kinky partner
The nature of kink relationships — being open right off the bat
New kink interests on the horizon: Fire floggers on wish list / Kink registry for wedding!
A note about kink people: They are normal and fun! / Join us! / Explore but be safe
The respectful nature of kinky folks as opposed to "normal" / vanilla folks
LINK: Blue’s profile with videos of the fire play and examples of other kink play
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