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Get your next decade started on the right foot by setting some goals you’ll actually achieve. Did you know that 80% of the goals people set are never met? In this episode, we’re talking about the 5 steps to take to reach your health, or really, any of your goals in 2020. First of all, to reach your goals, you’re going to have to learn about consistency. Consistency is essential, no matter what you’re doing, because it sets you in the good habits you need to build to achieve your goals. I also talk about why goals are so difficult for people to achieve and how you can start avoiding these traps. You might find that you’re more committed to reaching one type of goal than others. For example, career goals come easily to you, but your health goals always stay out of reach. A lot of this might come down to whether or not we actually believe we can achieve our goals.  But inevitably, some of us won’t reach our goals, and that’s okay. It’s more important to think about what we achieved on the way to our goals, how happy we felt making progress, and really just reframe our mindset about goals. To reach our goals, we need to be specific about what the goal will look like. Why do you want to reach it? Think about every aspect of your goal so you’re perfectly clear about what you’re trying to achieve. You also need to get in touch with your future self. They’ve already achieved your goal - what did they do to get to where they are? You might also find that you ask yourself this often while on the way to achieving your goals. What would your future self do? You should name her, as well, so you’re even more connected. I also talk about why achieving your goal actually takes a certain amount of detachment from the outcome. It might sound counterintuitive, but it works. And finally, there might come a time your end goal isn’t serving you anymore. If this happens, it could be time to reassess what your goals are and what they should be. What are your 2020 goals? Are your values aligned with what God wants from you? Do you feel like you deserve to reach your goals? Let me know in the comments on the episode page!   Got a question you’d love to hear me answer on the show? Leave me a voice message here!   In This Episode: Why consistency is the most important aspect in achieving the goals you set Why goals are so difficult to accomplish How different goals and different habits can have different levels of commitment What happens when we don’t really believe we can achieve our goals How to reframe your mindset if you don’t reach your goal Why you should be specific about what your goal will look like How you can visualize what your future self will do in any given situation Why you need to stay attached from the outcome of your goal When you might need to reevaluate what your goals are   Quotes: “The process of working towards goals is just as valuable as reaching the goal itself, if not more valuable.” (29:18) “Whatever it is, that ‘why’ is what’s going to drive you so much more than having this clear idea of what.” (37:26) “It doesn’t really matter what the actual goal is. All that matters is that you have the right steps to get there.” (49:54) “It’s not just about whether or not you’re actually moving towards the goal, it’s also about whether you like the life that is being created with the steps that you’re taking.” (56:26)   Links: Aglaée Jacobs on Facebook | Instagram Join the Challenge: Faith Over Fear 5-Day Body Confidence Challenge Got a question you’d love to hear me answer on the show? Leave me a voice message here! Running an online health business? Apply for my Inner Circle Mastermind   Check out the full episode post here Join the Fed and Fearless Society on Facebook Keep up with everything Fed And Fearless here Follow me on Facebook | Instagram | Twitter | Pinterest